Best Friend mean something

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It’s the times we’re so crazy,
that people think we’re high.
It’s the times we laugh so hard,
we can’t help but cry.
It’s all the inside jokes
and “remember whens”.
those are all the reasons
that we’re best friends!

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“If you’re alone, I’ll be your shadow. If you want to cry, I’ll be your shoulder. If you want a hug, I’ll be your pillow. If you need to be happy, I’ll be your smile… But anytime you need a friend, I’ll just be me.”

Friends

cherry-blossoms-after-the-rain_90463-1440x900A deaf boy and a dolphin become friends for life. some people think it is a miracle, but I think it is the most natural things in this world. There is a saying that goes ” No man is meant to be an island”. I believe that applies to us. People need other people for various reasons. Without the support of friends, life would be a lonely ride.

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Life without friends is blank, like world without colour is death. Friends provide us a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen and a hand to guide us. A smile from a good friend will do more than a thousand words from a well-meaning acquaintance.

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However, friends also have the power to hurt us most. Being betrayed by a friend whom we thought we trusted, is the ultimate blow. The mind cannot comprehend the betrayed and humility such ” friends” have put us through despite our sacrifices and loyalty we showered on them.

Friends, make our life seems like riding a roller coaster. What would we do without them?

Will friendship last longer

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If one day, your best friend has a better friend and she leave you, what will you do?

I have many friends too. We spent our time giggling together and between us there are no secret. It good to have this feeling, we can trust each other. I thought it not gonna to change. Unfortunately, I was wrong. I can smell a rat these day but you keep on say nothing. It hurt, you know? But I pretend I am ok with it, deep inside I feel frustrating. Maybe, this is the starting point of our friendship to break.

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Is this will go on forever?

How many people in this world will find their own very very best friend? 

– my life, my way

Why we need love

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Birds do it. Bees do it. But what exactly is it that we humans do? Do we choose to fall in love? The latest research asserts romantic love is not so much a swelling of emotions, but a physical drive as powerful as hunger.

Biologically the chemistry involved in “love” is nothing more than a set of hormonal responses geared toward the procreation and survival of the species.  Humans are not naturally monogamous although many cultures arrived at the conclusion that monogamy was more conducive to long term success. Other cultures disagree.

Emotionally/philosophically we love from a sense of needing to belong.  We need acceptance and affirmation from our own kind.  Humans find that affirmation in the intimacy that is love.  Please understand that marrying for love, permanent partnerships forged from love, was not always the rule.  Marraige was primarily a financial arrangement for most of the history of mankind.  This “financial” aspect of marraige holds true across cultures from childhood betrothels in India to the European mandate to “marry within your station” and do so advantageously for the family.  With the comparative dissolution of class structures in some societies things began to loosen up a bit.

So what kind of love?  Even if humans have not always partnered for love there are many kinds of love which feed our sense of belonging.  There is the love of our parents and families. There is the love of our children.  We seek the love of friends as well as partners.  We even seek the love of pets.  Love in all of these senses feeds our self image.  We seek the love and acceptance of the creator.  It feeds the need to belong and transcend what we see in ourselves.  When we see ourselves in a loving partner’s eyes we are more than what we see in the mirror.  When others have faith in us we feel we can do so much more than we did before.

Some would argue that we should not depend on others for our self worth and motivation to achieve.  Perhaps we shouldn’t but the fact is that most of us do.  Whether our motivation is our children, our partners or acceptance from God we care what others see in us.  We need that love. Humans live, die, kill and perform apparent miracles for love.  Pure or twisted it still motivates.

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But love hurt too. Love wounds  and mars. Love is like a cloud that holds a lot of rain. Love is like a flame, it burns you when it’s hot.Love is just a lie,
made to make you blue. Love hurts, ooh ooh love hurts

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But after all, we still look for love. We logging for the one for the one who actually love us, look for the one who actually can hold us carefully with his hand. And, to fulfill our emptiness.

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True Love

When he asked her to marry him,  he just say: trust me;

When her first daughter born to him, he said to her: you haved suffer;

When their daughters get marry, he put his arm around her and said: you still have me;

When he received notification of her dying, he repeatedly told her: I’m beside you;

The moment when she had to go, he kiss her forehead and telling her: Wait for me.

In their life, he never once told her, “I love you”, but love, and never left behind them

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